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Book Reviews
Over
the past few years, I've had the opportunity to review some
wonderfully written books on parenting, business, and organizing
topics. Below are a few of my favorites, which I wholeheartedly
recommend for your own library.
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parenting
Grace Based Parenting: Set Your Family Free
by Dr Tim Kimmel . What a refreshing book this is! With an underlying theme
of "treating your children the way God treats His children", Dr
Kimmel reminds us to raise our children with free and fearless child
rearing. I had the
privilege of interviewing Dr Kimmel recently, and based on the principles in
his book, I know that he's really onto something. This is a book that every
parent, especially Christian parents, should have on their bookshelf and
refer to time and time again. Full of practical and often
inspirational advice, Dr Kimmel's book encourages us to use balanced
parenting techniques in a grace-based family. You'll
discover the three driving inner needs of every child, the four
characteristics of a grace-based family, and how to instill hope in the
lives of your children.
Creative
Correction: Extraordinary Ideas for Everyday Discipline
by Lisa Whelchel. I've been a fan of positive or assertive discipline
for quite some time now, having been first introduced to it during my first
year of teaching kindergarten. Once I observed it in action with 33 unruly
kindergarteners I was hooked! Being fortunate enough to learn first hand
from a God-fearing mother and father, our home was strict but loving,
understanding but firm. So armed with a degree in education and raised by
wise parents, I assumed everyone else had access to these educational tools,
too. Boy was I wrong!
Raised in a generation of permissiveness, the parents of today have either
forgotten or were never instructed in the ways of positive parenting. In a
typical day filled with primal screams, tantrums, and idle threats, Mom and
Dad have failed to teach junior how to follow the rules for successful
living the way God intended for him to live-- with love, respect, and
obedience.
Several books have been written about parenting creatively, introducing the
basic steps of positive parenting, but leaving the parent on her own to find
creative ways to carry through with guidance and love rather than stress and
anger. With a flair for warm conversational writing, Lisa Whelchel has
poured all her creative ideas (and then some) into one wonderful resource
for us all--- and not a moment too soon!
Realizing that many parents are simply too busy to sit down and read a book
cover to cover , Ms Whelchel gives us permission to flip to the index to
look up hot topics in the Toolbox. And realizing that our households are
dynamic, we are encouraged to try something else or change directions if an
idea doesn't work-- well said!
As I sat down to write this review, I glanced at the book sitting on my
table with a plethora of Post-It flags sticking from every which direction,
marking passages and tips that I wanted to share with you. But I honestly
can't choose my favorites-- you simply must read this book from start to
finish, then read it again when the going gets tough (and it will, believe
me!). Keep it by your bedside or in the kitchen or near the time-out chair
for quick reference. Quote the Scriptures, implement the creative ideas, and
watch your children transform before your very eyes.
Be sure to visit the creative correction website at
www.creativecorrection.com to read the latest tips shared by the author and
online readers. This is definitely an idea worth passing forward!
Bringing
Up Boys: Practical Advice and Encouragement for Those Shaping the
Next Generation of Men by James Dobson. Having
been raised an only child by a mother who was not accustomed to the
ways of boys, raising a boy of my own has been quite a learning
experience indeed. When I learned that parenting guru, Dr. James
Dobson, had written a new book about raising boys, I was eager to
learn tips from a pro.
Much of the information in Dr. Dobson's book is based on common
sense, and he has really done his homework, sharing statistics and
other tidbits to help arm parents to raise a responsible and strong-charactered boy. As a homeschooling parent, I really enjoyed reading
information about boys and school-- not just the way they learn, but
how they also socialize.
Whether you are raising your first or one of many bouncing baby
boys, having this book on your home's library shelf will clear the
mystery and remind you that boys are indeed different from girls,
full of hammers & nails & puppy dog tails. And that
difference is just fine by me!
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Feed
Me, I'm Yours - Vicki Lansky. The
best resource I've found for feeding my son. What an excellent tool
for parents! My husband and I have eaten primarily home cooked meals
for 15 years, and now I can continue that tradition with our son.
The book provides wonderful alternatives to jarred foods when baby
just won't eat. I found creative ideas to use throughout the
preschool years, as well
I've given several
copies away as baby gifts, not only to first time moms, but to those
who are having a second or third child. This book is full of helpful
and fun ideas for mealtime and snacks. Just one more way to organize
mealtimes for your family
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personal growth
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Don't
Sweat the Small Stuff for Women
by Kristine Carlson. The main theme of this book is to
slow down, focus on what matters most, and spend time doing things
you love. But I think it's more than that--from giving women
permission to spend time for themselves to encouraging us to stop
over-volunteering, Don't Sweat the Small Stuff for Women is
full of sage advice that is both practical and doable.
It's refreshing to read these philosophies in one resource, ready
for the taking. From dwelling on the positive to managing our time,
these teachings can be practiced by women of all ages: ask for help,
create a morning ritual, be selective with your volunteer
services--- all are effective ways to reduce the stress in our
oh-so-busy lives. A most welcome addition to my personal library,
and one that I will continue to recommend to my clients.
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home life
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Making
a Home : Housekeeping for Real Life by Better Homes and
Gardens. What a great
resource this book is! The editors of Better Homes and
Gardens have done a superb job of compiling everything you
need to know about setting up and maintaining an orderly
home.
Well organized with tabs for quick reference, MAKING A HOME
covers cleaning, house systems, home environment,
entertaining and etiquette, records, and of course ......
organization.
Whether you're organizationally challenged or think you've
got it together,I predict that MAKING A HOME will become
your cookbook of organizing.
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Mom
Central - The Ultimate Family Organizer
-Stacy DeBroff & Marsha Feinberg. Finally, a quick
reference guide for moms by moms! Mom Central is well organized,
easily navigated, and even easier to use. The Table of Contents lets
you know at a glance what's inside the book, and where to find it in
an instant - no fumbling or wading through rivers of text to find
the information you need. With forms for planning, journaling, and
chronicling, Mom Central is the only records keeper you will need to
keep your family's life in order. This one was definitely worth
waiting for, and I can't wait to show it to my clients and workshop
students.
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Miserly
Moms - Janni McCoy.
Written for stay at home moms as a guide to budgeting a one-income
family in a two-income society. Ms. McCoy was recently featured on
the Gayle King show during home organization week, where she shared
some insightful and practical tips for sticking to a grocery budget.
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Frozen
Assets
Deborah Taylor-Hough. For those of you who are overwhelmed
with trying to plan, shop, and cook for your families after a busy
day, this book is for you. Once a month, or bulk cooking is
not a new concept, but what I find refreshing about Frozen Assets is
OPTIONS. My mantra has forever been "there's no ONE way
to be organized", and this book shares that philosophy. Bulk
cooking is just that; cook double batches for a week and have
another week's worth of meals for your freezer. Cook once a month
and have 30 days' worth of meals in your freezer. Try it out, a
little at a time, and if you like the concept, tweak it for your
lifestyle.
Deborah
walks you through step by step, from planning to shopping to cooking
to storing. I'm always looking at the way books are organized for
quick reference, and this one delivers. The table of contents
provides a quick look at recipes, which are cross-referenced for
ease of use. Frugal tips for shopping and budgeting are
included as well. I highly recommend Deborah's book, and urge you to
pick up a copy of your own.
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